1. Space is good
There are days when we need some of it and then there are days when we need some more. It’s as simple as that.
2. We don’t want to know your ‘poop and piss’ schedule
We don’t need every two minutes update. Our hands are full, really. We don’t mind missing out on your important moments like playing a video game or watching a certain show like ‘breaking bad’ (OK, you can talk to us about that) but let’s cut out the sports talk.
3. We don’t need you to pay our bills
We are totally comfortable paying it ourselves both figuratively and literally. We don’t need your money unless you are buying gifts. We like gifts, we all do.
4. We clean our own mess
We created it, we clean it. We are mentally strong to deal with any kind of shit that comes our way. Having said that, your genuine care is much appreciated. Just don’t overdo it.
5. We can go for movies, shopping, dinner alone
Since we don’t get me-time so often, we are totally cool with you being busy.
6. We are comfortable making small talk with strangers
At a party, or otherwise, you don’t have to worry too much about us. We know how to entertain ourselves, maybe flirt a little too (harmless of course). We have plenty to talk about. We are educated, modern and independent, remember?
7. We still want to be told how much you love us
Our busy lives and schedules take up most of our time, but we do love you and cherish the togetherness even if we don’t show it that often. Hey, we are always up for hearing how much you love us.